As others have said it is a very personal decision. I had a very similar thing happen and chose to take the drugs to
Induce miscarriage at home. There was no way I could face going to hospital in the emotional state I was in so I didn't choose the d&c. And we had a special occasion coming up so I didn't want to wait for it to happen naturally.
I really don't think you will see you baby but you probably will know when your baby is no longer with you. (hugs) it is an awful decision.
As I was having ivf, my doctor did a scan to ensure everything was clear to go again and I ended up having a very quick d&c that targeted one area but I would not have had to have one if it was not my last go at ivf.