I am very sorry for your loss.

I have been through a loss myself , i made them double check to see my baby definiately had no heart beat before i allowed them to perform the d & c my head was telling me things were ok but in my heart i just knew things weren't that way......sadly my baby had passed and the d&c was carried out. I think about the baby i lost every day even after almost 8yrs it doesnt get any easier ( well for me it hasn't).

Sending you huge hugs hun xxxxxx