Hi Pukeko,

I just had to strongly agree with Angel that we are mothers from the very instant that we know our babies are there. Sometimes even if we are just hoping that they are there IYKWIM.

Im glad that you find support in this site. It really is truly amazing and helpful. I honestly dont know how i would be at the point i am without all these ladies.

Just try not to be too hard on yourself. I know that it is easier said than done but i try to just let myself feel whatever i feel at that point. Whether it be sadness, angry, crying, smiling, laughing at something stupid on tele, heartbroken or love.

Be kind to yourself and you partner this is a very rough time but you will get through it.

Love Sarah