Not again...

**Antheia** · December 7th, 2005, 12:06 PM

Well looks like i am back again

Last night when i went to the loo and wipped there was pink tinged mucus. Then as the night went on(had no sleep) it got heavier and redder. This morning it is now exactly like last time. I also have a dull back ache and all my symptoms are now gone

I just don't know what to do with myself.

Is it because i only just had a m/c a month ago? Or just one of those things...

Feeling numb and thinking my body is stupid for not knowing how to keep a baby

*TamaraP* · December 7th, 2005, 12:12 PM

Oh sweetheart

I am so sorry you are going through this again in such a short period of time.
Take it easy for today and if things get worse go straight to your DR's....

And its not your fault. It had nothing to do with your last m/c its just the way things sometimes happen. And your body is not at fault either. :hugs:

Go have a hot chocolate and lay down and snuggle up with Lily.

If things get worse, go straight to your DR....

Tigergirl1980 · December 7th, 2005, 12:19 PM

I'm so sorry Tegan

It's not your or your body's fault, it's just a miserable part of life, there is nothing that you did or didn't do to cause this. And I agree with Tamara take it easy and if it gets worse go straight to the doctor.

**~Raven~** · December 7th, 2005, 12:23 PM

Tegan.

Fee · December 7th, 2005, 12:31 PM

Tegan I'm so sorry â€¦ sending you a big hug.

**Phteven** · December 7th, 2005, 12:36 PM

I'm so sorry

thats just not fair!! take care of yourself and don't forget we're all herre if you need us.

**kyliealysha** · December 7th, 2005, 01:00 PM

I am so sorry to hear this has happened to you so soon

Take care of yourself

**Angelic** · December 7th, 2005, 01:09 PM

Tegan I am so sorry that you are going through this again

Please take good care of yourself

**Inanna** · December 7th, 2005, 01:13 PM

Oh Tegan, So so sorry.
This is nothing that you did or didn't do. There used to be a school of thought that said you should wait when you miscarry but statistically you are at no higher risk of miscarriage if you conceive in the next cycle.

Please take care, have some cuddles, drink lots of fluids and rest.

This is not fair and I wish you weren't going through this again.

'Just one of those things'... I don't know. I do know that 10 years ago you wouldn't have even known you were pregnant and you would have thought you were late for your period. I wondered after my loss early last week if these early tests are such a great idea. .. Next time I will be holding off testing until I am a couple of weeks late for AF. These early losses are sometimes termed a chemical pregnancy, where there is a fertilisation but implantation doesn't quite work. None of that is going to make any difference to the sadness you are feeling.

I wish I could make this better for you. I am here if you need anything - okay?
Lots and lots of love and hugs :hugs: