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thread: not sure how to even comprehend loss

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    not sure how to even comprehend loss

    dear me.
    i am so sorry to have anyone read this, let alone suffer or support this.
    loss is the most awful thing i cannot even comprehend.
    i have just been told my third pregnancy has ended due to a missed miscarriage at (mydates) 9 ish weeks
    i have two children and have had two pregnancies resulting in those children. No complications, no risks. no sadnesses.
    but as i sit here tonight, i am at the part of grief wondering why.
    i want to offer my hand and heart to those who have lost, at any time and say, gosh, i am sorry beyond words. If there was anything i could do, i wish i could. i hug, i listen, i cry and i hold.
    my mum has lost, my friends, but never me and it is so awful.
    i feel for these bubbas, mummas, fathers, their friends and family.

    i dont need response at all, i just want to hold my hand up and support anyone who needs it at any time for anything.
    take care
    x madame x
    i hope not to offend at all

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    couldnt leave your post without something, words aren't enough right now. xx

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    My heart aches for you, and for all of those who have suffered loss and grief. madamerogers, I hope that you have all the support and love that you need right now.

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    I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss take it one day at a time, and remember we are all here when you need us

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    I'm deeply sorry for your loss

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    Miscarriage is just so cruel, thanks for sharing your story when I had my miscarriages the only thing that really helped was this forum and communicating with people who understood. Big hugs to you, I am sorry you have also had to experience pregnancy loss. You are amazing to extend your heart to others at a time of such sorrow for yourself.

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    Oh no I'm so sorry that this has happened to you

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    i could not read this and not send you long distance hugs

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    My beautiful friend,
    Again I am so sorry you have to go through this. Having a miscarriage really shakes you, and does make you wonder why. Why me?
    Just know, that it was nothing you did or didn't do.
    You have wonderful family and friends to support you, and your besties are here for you when you need us.
    Love you xxx

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    Love you babe xoxoxox

    Here if you need me.

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    I am so sorry hun. Its an awful awful thing to go through.

    Nae x

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    Oh hun I am ever so sorry xoxo sending you loads of love

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    I am so sorry for your loss it's heartbreaking and a lot of people dont understand. I have just had my third miscarriage in five months and like you had two very normal pregnancys previously. There are so many questions and so much sadness but just remember that there is nothing you did wrong just know that there are others who do understand what you are experiencing.xx hugs emma

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    Oh, madame, I'm so sorry. Look after yourself, and talk as much as you want with us. You are such a beautiful soul, I'm sorry you have to go through this.

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    My beautiful Madame... Words cannot express how sad i am that you have had to go through this. And for you to be thinking of others just shows what an amazing person you are. You hold such a dear place in my heart and please know that i'm thinking of you all the time and wishing i could be there.

    Fly free little baby.

    All my love xx

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