Now I need your help, bleeding.....

**Miss.B** · January 11th, 2010, 04:01 AM

Hun, sending you all my love and thinking of you. It's just so unfair

**Pretty Butterfly** · January 11th, 2010, 04:37 AM

The cramping got a little wrose, and then stopped. I am off to the hossy now, go in at 9.30, but they are making me stay overnight as I was over 12 weeks...... I dont wanna stay, I want to come home and go to bed with my babies like I do every night......

Thank you everyone....... I dont know I would of gotten through yesterday without all of you.......

***EJ*** · January 11th, 2010, 05:38 AM

So sorry for the loss of your little bubba

Hope you are home with your children and husband very soon

xoxo

**sloane** · January 11th, 2010, 05:42 AM

thinking of you today & sending love & hugs your way

**Tanya** · January 11th, 2010, 05:58 AM

Thinking of you PB.

xx

**Mummato2** · January 11th, 2010, 06:06 AM

I wish I had have seen this sooner.

I had a miscarriage at 14.5 weeks, bub was around 11 weeks.

Hospital told me to go home, I could do it myself

It was horrific - and the afterpains were on par with labour pains. A D&C will take away the extended pain and bleeding - plus you won't run the risk of hemorrhage

In the end you need to do what you are comfortable with, it could be that you choose to do it naturally in the hospital so you have a chance to grieve etc - but then be in a place where they can get to you if you have a heavy bleed or something goes wrong.

I am so sorry sweetheart

ETA - I just read your update. Good luck this morning, you and your beautiful family and angel baby are in my thoughts and prayers xxx

**rufalina** · January 11th, 2010, 06:25 AM

thinking of you today babe. ox

**takingtime** · January 11th, 2010, 06:31 AM

Thinking of you PB.

**~Kaz~** · January 11th, 2010, 06:34 AM

Oh PB I am heartbroken for you and cannot imagine the pain you are going through right now

I am so sorry your baby could not stay.

I was in this thread last night when we had a blackout but I want you to know that I went to bed thinking of you, Adam and your baby and woke up thinking of you this morning.

Sending you lots of love and strength.