I wish I had have seen this sooner.
I had a miscarriage at 14.5 weeks, bub was around 11 weeks.
Hospital told me to go home, I could do it myself
It was horrific - and the afterpains were on par with labour pains. A D&C will take away the extended pain and bleeding - plus you won't run the risk of hemorrhage
In the end you need to do what you are comfortable with, it could be that you choose to do it naturally in the hospital so you have a chance to grieve etc - but then be in a place where they can get to you if you have a heavy bleed or something goes wrong.
I am so sorry sweetheart
ETA - I just read your update. Good luck this morning, you and your beautiful family and angel baby are in my thoughts and prayers xxx
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