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thread: Is it ok to avoid pregnant people after loss?

  1. #19
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    116

    ppl who say "ah dont worry shes just a teenager" it doesnt matter how old u r its till going to hurt, its still the loss of a child, hunni just ignore ppl who say that they dont understand, i was ready for a baby at 17 but waited till i was 19, best thing i ever did, i finished high school and all that, i lived life like a teenager was ment to and now im 24 and just had my second. i understand ur hurting , BIG HUGS!!!!!! u do what u feel is right for u , it may take w while for u to figure out what that is right now cos ur hurting but just do what feels right

  2. #20
    Registered User

    Jun 2009
    Rotorua, New Zealand
    24

    Yeah thats how i feel as well, its like who cares if i'm a teenager i still am going through a pain any person would no matter how old they are.
    With loosing my baby girl i really want a baby now but i dont think thats going to happen due to the fact well my partner isn't ready and we are both studying.
    Even then i dont feel like i'm living like a teen so much with having the distraught and pain of loosing a baby.
    Its nice to have people understand what i'm going through, my friends or family (that knows) just dont get anything i'm on about. Even my partner (isnt the baby's father) just listens when i just need someone to listen.
    At the moment, i have no idea what's right but i know i will eventually figure it out.

    Yeah.

    *Bree-Ana*

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