thread: One year on.

  1. February 8th, 2011, 02:37 PM #1
    Tegam
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    One year on.

    Its been a year tomorrow since my ectopic surgery, one year today that i got the BFP and the GP said congratulations and i had to say to the junior idiot that i didnt think it was something to congratulate me about...the bleeding, the pain could have only meant one thing

    I know at the time that i wasnt dealing with it. It was very easy to ignore what was going on as we were in the middle of buying a house, moving and then i fell again so soon.

    I have so much to be thankful for, Little Molly is everything to me, i feel terrible about feeling so mucked up at the moment over the ectopic.

    Ahhh i dont even know where i was goin with this...... No need to reply.
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  2. February 8th, 2011, 02:38 PM #2
    danita
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    just wanted to give u some hugs
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  3. February 8th, 2011, 02:38 PM #3
    *Ash*
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    Hugs hun. xx
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  4. February 8th, 2011, 02:40 PM #4
    ~Hestia~
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    Thinking of you
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  5. February 8th, 2011, 02:41 PM #5
    Maruschke
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    It is perfectly OK to grieve, even when you have been blessed with Molly. You lost a baby and having M didn't change that. Don't feel bad about your feelings, just accept them and process it.

    Hope you are surrounded by loving supportive friends and family .

    xoxo
    M
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  6. February 8th, 2011, 02:57 PM #6
    kellbell
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    Big hugs
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  7. February 8th, 2011, 03:00 PM #7
    Bumperstump Cummerbund
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    Ditto to Marushcke, we seem to be on the same wavelength today Just because you have Molly, doesn't mean you're not entitled to grieve for your lost baby. I often wonder how different life would be if my first baby hadn't died - would I have still had 4 children? Miscarriage and stillbirth brings with it a lot of second guessing, a lot of emotional baggage, and it pretty much stays for life. Talk it out with us when you're ready hun, we're here
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  8. February 8th, 2011, 03:07 PM #8
    *Sparklez*
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    It is perfectly OK to grieve, even when you have been blessed with Molly. You lost a baby and having M didn't change that. Don't feel bad about your feelings, just accept them and process it.

    Hope you are surrounded by loving supportive friends and family .


    xoxo
    M
    Beautifully said

    big hugs Tegam
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  9. February 8th, 2011, 03:31 PM #9
    indie24
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  10. February 8th, 2011, 07:53 PM #10
    Diamond Girl
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    Im sorry for your loss.

    Like the others said, it doesnt matter how many other kids you have, any loss is still so hard. It has been for me certainly.

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  11. February 8th, 2011, 08:04 PM #11
    Jewel
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