Nothing is wrong with you.. there is no certain time to "be over it"... you will often find yourself thinking about your angel bub. Especially coming up to due dates, and next year on anniversaries, and probably christmas and any other spcial time where you realise bub is not there.

As for comparing yourself to your sister, dont stress, different people cope differently. And also you had 17 weeks of thinking you were bringing a bubba home, she only had three weeks, and there is a big difference there.

Losing a baby is not easy and it stays with you forever, please dont pressure yourself to be "ok" before you really are. And even then, it ok to be sad every now and then forever!!!!!

Take care xxoo