Thankyou so much for the detailed and supportive replies. I deeply appreciate you all taking the time. I have got a Dr's appointment on Monday morning so I am hoping something will happen this weekend. Now that hubby is home for the weekend I am thinking I can really relax and drop into what it being asked of me. I will certainly make sure that I don't have any infection symptoms, I think I feel off in my body due to the waiting and wondering, plus still feeling nausea which is difficult as it is no longer useful.

It feels wonderful to be able to come here and ask, I am still staying very much close to home so haven't really asked many people in real life how it was for them.

So again, heartfelt thanks to all for being so open to share such a personal experience with me, I feel so much more supported to walk the next steps xxx