Well done kirsty.. this is a huge step & an important step... as you said it is their problem if ppl have a problem with it... i am sure ppl will soon
When I ws in NICU with Alexa, a mum their had twins at 25 weeks & lost 1 after 9 days... she had his ashes in a box & carried him everywhere with her in a baby bag, with his teddy & picture... at first when I realised (she told me) I was honestly surprised & shocked, but it didnt take long for me to become comfortable with him being with us & even "looked after" him when his mum went into the unit to see his bother....
To some it may be wierd (it was to me at first), but I soon realised as will others, that it is a wonderful thing that this special little person is around in their own way & will never be forgotten!!!
Kirsty, i cant imaging losing 2 bubs like you have. I think if people are offended by your wishes then they arent worth haveing around. He is part of the family and if you wish to have him in the house as he should be then thats your decision not theirs.
I hope this never ever happens to you again and that one day you are blessed with a bub to hold and nurture for life. So sorry for your losses.:hugs: my heart truly goes out to you.
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