Tegam,
She's a mess as you would expect. She and her husband are seeing counsellors each week. They go together and they both have individual sessions as well. They're both back at work now and she says that helps but coming home is hard and the weekends are horrible!!
She's beautiful with Katie. She didn't come to dd's birthday (I wasn't surprised) but she did email asking for photos.
I found it hard to tell her I was pregnant. I was actually 14 weeks pregnant at his funeral and I hadn't told her yet. I was worried that she would see the bump but in retrospect, I should have anticipated that she wasn't seeing anything that day!! I finally told her when I was about 18 weeks and she has been so excited.
She is an amazing mummy and such a strong woman! She is talking about having another child in the future sometime and I think it's amazing that she can be so positive. She's just a beautiful person!!