Susan,

When I disable my ticker, I then go and write my own ticker at the bottom of the post like this;

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DS1-15 DD-11 DS2-2
Noah Thomas - Born an angel Feb 06 (20w5d)
Little Wing - 2007


When I lost Noah I personally found it very confronting to see people as far along in their pregnancy as what I should have been... it was hard all over the forums, but especially hard in the Miscarriage & Loss sections as that is where I felt I needed to be, with people who understood me.