vent: what do I do now?

[juniper76]

We had everything done through the OB and we were charged normal rates for everything.

[Krikkit]

Anyone know how long it takes for your milk to dry up? I have started actively leaking now

The dr offered me tablets but they make me sick.

[myturn]

I was leaking for a couple of weeks pretty full on and probably reduced a bit after that. But really only stopped fully until my next AF. I found it helped to wear a crop top to bed and ways wear a bra. As it was when they were hanging out it was worse. I couldn't bring myself to get proper breast pads (cause they were for mums) but I used those cotton pads like cotton balls in my bra which helped on those days it was worse. It does feel like insult to injury at first and then I kind of liked it as it made the baby seem real, even though it was such an early loss. I found it helped to know that at least my beasts worked properly, eve thought my body was letting me down in other ways

sorry beautiful krikkir xox

[Krikkit]

I found out today that our angel was a boy, he had trisomy 18 ( Edwards syndrome) - we decided on Zachary Leon for his name. I am happy that we have an answer and can let some of the stress go.

[Joeve]

Hugs krikkit and I love your little angel boys name xx

[sepata]

So sorry krikkit

[onthefly]

Sounds like knowing has helped a bit

[vic261]

Krit. Its a lovely name xxx

Does this information help you with any decision making?

[~TT40~]

always loved the name Zachary. its beautiful. glad you got an answer. i hope it helps you.
Fly free little prince.

[Krikkit]

It does help, we will go ahead with a FET once funds permit. I think hubby is more upset than myself right now as it was a little boy. I have sorta come to terms with everything, given I went through all the physical trauma so I had no choice but to deal with it, then and there iykwim.

[juniper76]

I'm glad you got an answer. We were told the T18 was a random occurrence and there was no reason to expect it to happen again. That's a beautiful name for your angel.

[GiggleMonkey]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss Krikkit

I am glad to hear you were able to get an answer hun. Zachary Leon is a beautiful name for your little angel.


xoxo