I am so sorry you are in this situation, Lee

I had a miscarriage in 2008. It was confirmed around 5 1/2 weeks, we waited 4 weeks for my body to naturally do its thing because I was terrified of a D&C. It never did. I ended up needing a D&C. I still had symptoms for about 3-4 days after the D&C, which is just simply cruel

FWIW the D&C was not at all how I expected it to be. Im sorry you have to make this decision at all