Is this what i think it is? *warning TMI*

[Bumperstump Cummerbund]

Chicky, you HAVE to stop blaming yourself - nothing you did caused this! Sometimes it's just better for things like this to happen, as opposed to having to live in pain for however long. KWIM?

Maybe you should take some time off work, to grieve and accept what's happened. I think you're going to cause some major emotional problems by telling yourself how you should and shouldn't be grieving - just do what comes naturally, and don't try to justify it. You know that you would tell any one of us the same things!

And as ali said - I flushed mine away too. I honestly don't know of anything else that could've been done, but I know that my memory, and yours, is more than enough to keep 'twinkle' from being forgotten.

[tk1999]

Missy (or Papillon as I see you have changed to - I like!), I am so sorry to hear of your loss... there is not much else I can say that the other gals haven't already said... just wanted to give you my thoughts and much love

xox