a friend of mine (not close) gave birth to her little girl at 18 weeks on friday I bought a simple card which says

outside " sometimes there are no perfect words"

inside "...only thoughtful silences that whisper of caring"

I dont know if I should write something besides our thoughts are with you both, should I mention ******* by name ???? I know from personal experience I loved when someone spoke Katy's name but........??? I just