I was out with friends this morning. Two of them I had previously told about my past miscarriage, and it took a huuuuuuuge amount of balls for me to tell them. The other one has just had a d&c after a miscarriage at 12 weeks. We dont get along fabulously, but I mustered up all the compassion I had, and, in order to support her, was telling her a bit about my experience.
One of the others, hearing this, said "oh my god, did you have a miscarriage?" I really distinctly remember telling her about it, and her reaction - loving and supportive.
I'm a little bit gutted that she doesn't remember. I don't know why, I just am.
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