Dear Acria,
I am so sorry for your loss - it is so hard i know - i wish i could take away your greif but i cannot, it will take time as you know but your babies will always be in your hearts and thoughts. I know what you mean about no one listening to you when you know something is wrong, with my first m/c i rang my doctor he was at the dentist and his nurse/receptionist told me to put my feet up and paint my nails! Like i felt like painting my nails and then she told me there was no magic potion so just take it easy. It was not my ivf doctor it was a gyno in town - but i suppose there is nothing they can do to stop an early m/c and thats how nature works but i do feel that these people that we trust so much should find a better way of talking to us when these things happen like your student doctor apologising for the term product and replacing it with your baby its right and if only they new what they were saying sometimes and how much it hurts when they refer to our babies as products or waste.
Take care of yourself sweetie sending you :hugs: and