Thought I'd update! 3 months on and she is toilet trained at school! Rarely has an accident, wee's whenever she needs to, and even takes her nappy off after sleep time to go do a wee on the toilet!
At home? Well we haven't been pushing it. We put her in undies, and ask if she wants to sit on the toilet/potty. She always does, just never does anything. She will hold it in til she has a nappy, or inadvertently has an accident (which incidentally she isnt scared of weeing then, she just tells us she's wet or strips off lol)
Tonight however she did a wee on the potty on purpose!! arty: yay!! It was a big wee too! We tried the toilet and she wanted to get off after a while but still kept saying she wanted to wee so.i brought the potty into the lounge and she sat down and within 30 secs or so did a wee!! She looked initially a bit freaked but I kept constantly praising her and saying "yay! Go miss a!!" And she then was all excited!! She got lots of cuddles and high 5s and video called daddy at work to tell him the news!!
Fingers firmly crossed we can continue this now!! Her teachers at daycare reckon that once she's done one wee at home it'll click because she's already pretty much toilet trained there! Hopefully huh?