Just did the 3 day Toilet Training (Lora Jensen), started yesterday so its the end of day 2 for us, and we have had massive success. I followed it to the letter though. First day was EXHAUSTING as I was basically following DS around ALL day. He had loads of accidents Day 1 - changed his jocks about 25 times. Then after his bath he was dry, dry all night (no nappy) and went to the loo when he got up and did a massive wee, then about an hour or so later he took himself to the loo and dropped #2s. He's had one accident today and taken himself to the loo each and every time and has it all worked out now, even did another #2 all by himself on the toilet. He can take off and put his own jocks on, walked into the bathroom and washes his hands even, we are totally amazed. Tonight he even said to me "Well done Mummy" when he saw me on the loo PMSL

Big fan of the 3 day method here, but I think you need to follow it very very closely