At home I use washers with warm water. When she was little I used cotton wool balls with warm water.
BUT having said that, when you're out or when you have a ripper of a poo - baby wipes do a great job.
I don't like J&J because they give me dermatitis. Huggies are great but too expensive. Aldi wipes are FANTASTIC. i also have curash ones in the car.
Darcy's pretty vocal and she's never said they sting - she just hates them when they're cold lol. But when you have a dose of the runs, baby wipes are far superior to toilet paper IMO (sorry TMI - but you have to test these things out lol)