thankyou guys for all the suggestions i might have to try some i have tried making her go to the toilet b4 bed and then when dp got home from afternoon shift he would wake her up but still be wet in the morning. my younger sister had the same problem and she wet the bed till she was 12.mum had tried everything with her including the nasal spray but didnt work. then at 12 she was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and once she was on insalin she did not have one more wet night. so im hoping my daughter doesnt have the gene.