im not making him feel guilty, because obviously i realise its something he can't control. on the contrary, im trying to be as supportive as possible. i completely understand that bedwetting is common, and is also genetic, and i know i used to wet the bed when i was a kid as well, so he probably gets it from me anyway. but since DS has just started school, i think he would like to get this under control as well. he wants to wear undies to bed at night, not nappies, so hopefully the bedwetting alarm will help him acheieve this.