I've never used any kind of creams, only powder (have made sure to use less on cloth) and coconut oil which apparently is ok for cloth?

I'll try the strip wash and I'll upload a video whenever I can of putting the nappy on him to get your advice about whether I'm doing it right or not.

With the checking before and after a nap I usually don't know for sure when he's going to fall asleep as his naps aren't scheduled, and I am somewhat ashmed to admit I can't be bothered with all that checking I am probably one of if not the laziest mum I know.