CrystalBoo, I had just assumed that you could put the cloth nappies in with a normal load of washing (if no accidents)???

The other issue that has now come up is DS wil not wear pull ups as he thinks they are for babies, he ended up sleeping in his undies last night and again tonight. The blueberry trainer I ordered is waterproof so hopefully it's grown up enough for him.

It's kind of funny because i'm the one who is so concerned about accidents and we haven't really had any since the first few days. i feel like i'm holding him back in a way because i'm so worried about having to clean up a bit of wee.