Oh hun. It is hard to see them in pain isnt it.

I find bepanthen is great, but thats me. I use the everyday cream. I dont put it on at every nappy change but I do notice that if i miss a day or two then DD's bottom starts to get red so I quickly start using it again and it clears up straight away.

I would give the wipes a miss as well. Just get some disposable chux cloths and dip them in warm water for cleaning up poos.

Hope she gets better soon.