I asked everyone I knew too! DS still sits on the toilet to pee, but I'm sure he'll stand one day! We tell him to hold it down and havent had more than a drop spill out. He still has trouble even getting up on his stool to sit down by himself, so standing is out of the question yet. A friend bought a 'wee man' that clips onto the front of the toilet bowl and her DS stood from day one. You could google it if you're interested.