Both my boys were toilet trained sitting and told to point their penis down - sometimes they held it down. I wish they'd never started standing up as their aim is shocking!! We have one of those wee targets, but still... I'm forever cleaning up after them. 9 times of 10 it's just laziness and/or not bothering to concentrate Weeing outside is probably the easiest place to teach standing up wees. The aim doesn't matter so much and they get the hang of it all.