*noni*e* - yes I think we will try the reward thing and see if that improves matters.

aussienic - I'm seriously considering the nappy thing, but I really think she wouldn't care. And if she did, she can take them off herself. (tonight I put her to bed with a nappy on, as usual, and she pooped in it, (4th poop today - where is it coming from!!!) and took it off. Poop on the floor. One last hurrah for a stellar day.)
As far as cleaning it up with me, I think she'd enjoy that too! And, heavens only knows where the poop would end up then!
My mom suggested giving a little treat after each successful potty trip - I don't like giving candy - got any good suggestions? She likes to eat!