Thanks for the hugs Shantelle

Erin - I think it is that she gets sidetracked most of the time but then she denies that shes doing anything and finishes it off in her undies. If I catch her doing it, we go straight to the toilet and tip the poo in and she sits and finishes it off but shes so independent that she doesnt hang around me for me to catch her often. I do tell her off and tell that its gross and not nice. I tell her that mummy does it in the toilet and so does all her friends and that she needs to keep her undies clean and pretty. Its so frustrating