Thank you so much for your responses.

I have done the sticker trick & also the chocky trick, perhaps I should start that up again. I have been singing a little song to her & clapping my hands & making a massive deal about it just lately that sends her into hysterics, so I will continue with that & add a smartie or something into it.

After my big whinge this afternoon, it was like the light switched again & she went back to being super-perfect & she also wore her knickers to Nanna's for dinner & did about 4 wees & had not 1 accident. This afternoon she also started crying after I put her to bed & she got really upset & ripped her nappy off saying 'Jessica not like nappies, take it off'. She took it off, put her knickers back on & laid down & promptly went to sleep. So I got two old towels, put a garbage bag inbetween them & slid the towels under her bottom so if she did have an accident in her sleep she wouldn't wet the bed. She woke up completely dry & did a massive wee not long after she woke up. I made a BIG DEAL of the song that time! LOL.

She has also been given some character knickers for her birthday which she calls 'big girls knickers' & wants to wear those all the time rather than the terry towelling training pants, so I have been telling her that if she keeps on weeing her knickers she'll have to give them back, so I guess we're all on the same wavelength in the bribery stakes! LOL.

I'm feeling much better about it all tonight, I just have moments where it's frustrating, I think I've just got so much on my mind atm that it's just playing on it even more. I have been lying awake thinking about it!

Thanks again all of you & I'll let you know how we go in the next couple of days!

Love Jayne xox