I have a problem with my 3 1/2 yo DS and his stubborn refusal to go on the toilet or potty. I am being very patient with him but it is starting to wear me down, especially when he kicks and screams at me when I change his nappy.
It doesn't help too that I have a very curious 20 month old DS that wants to be a part of the "fun" and join in. I even got 2 identical potties so little one could join in but they fight over one and leave the other alone.
I have had success when by fluke he weed in the potty after which much fuss and a freddo frog was given. I thought he'd be keen to go again but he refuses.
I've tried training pants, new undies he picked out and no pants but he hides behind curtains or in the corner and pees

I need to hear from anyone who has dealt with this as it seems too easy for other people. I read toddler taming and have been trying to use his ideas but when DS won't even sit on the thing I can't even get a start.

Sorry for the ramble

Sam