I'm also trying the rewards chart with Jayden, it works sometimes then sometimes it doesn't. He loves the idea of stickers so that is usually his reward (for behaviour mainly) and once he has 10 stickers he gets a present next time we go shopping. The present is never anymore than $5. Like Michelle, we are going to get a heap of cheap things, crayons, matchbox cars, stickers etc and have a rewards bag/box that he can pick 1 present out of rather than waiting until we go shopping.

As far as expaining it, just tell her what it is. I told Jayden that everytime he goes to the toilet we are going to put a sticker on the chart, I let him chose the sticker and put it on so he is involved. The only time it doesn't work is when we are on our way out and don't have time or at someones house where we don't have the chart. Fisher Price have a Potty Training book, one for girls and one for boys. Its a story book about going to the toilet and at the back is a pull out chart with stickers. I'll PM you with a website that has heaps of charts (rewards/potty training/brushing teeth etc) plus it has heaps of tips.

Thats great Miss C went to the toilet! They all learn in their own time, Jayden is great 1 day then terrible the next. As soon as I put jocks on him he thinks its a nappy and wets them