I've just started TT my DD. started 10 days ago.

We are placing a small sticker on the wall (house being renovated soon so dont really care - but of course you could use a piece of paper) each time DD does a wee. She just loves picking the sticker out and sticking it up!

With poos we have 'special' stickers which she picked out and when she gets three 'special' stickers we have promised to take her bike down to the bike path. But of course offer what ever you are comfortable with.....balloons, blowing bubbles, etc...

Although saying that she has only done a poo on the toilet twice in 10 days and saves them for her nappy during arvo sleep time.

Is it worth doing a bit of extra washing and putting her to bed in the arvo with just her knickers on? She may understand better if she can't 'save' wee's for the nappy.

Although ive just noticed that you have a 4 month old and got lots on your plate already. Sorry, that's probably not much help at all...........