We eventually had to ditch the nappies all together as well, apart from sleep times. Having said that, DD has been waking up during the day still dry and some mornings too, so I think it won't be long... woohoo

DD was a bit more obstinate. She'd forget and have accidents I think because she wasn't quite ready. We got her a potty and undies and things around the same age as your DD, it was Christmas so she would have been 22 months. My niece (2.5yrs at that stage) was full-blown TT and DD showed so much interest that we though "yeah, give it a go".

What followed was about 4mths of half-baked toilet training attempts... she'd run around no nappy at home and sometimes remember to do a wee, sometimes not. We'd put her back into a nappy to go out and she NEVER asked to go to the toilet while we were out, even if I asked her if she needed to go. One horrendous trip to Doncaster with no nappy on (tried it out) she weed, we changed her, she weed AGAIN (like 5mins later), then POOED. I cracked it as I was dealing with her weeing on the carpet at home and DS not sleeping, so she went back into nappies.

She just didn't seem to CARE. She'd wee on the floor and just look at it like "What's that funny wet stuff?" We talked to her about using the potty or the toilet (with the little seat on it), then I started fretting about kinder next year - she can't go to kinder in nappies. So in about June/July (2yrs 5mths) I started talking about kinder and how she couldn't go if she couldn't use the toilet... I was talking to a friend about how she didn't seem to get it and she suggested the cold turkey, no nappies. Stop messing around going half-hearted at it and just do it.

So we did. Told her no nappies during the day. That was only about a month ago. She did really well for a few days, then had two accidents (just wee) at Church one Sunday night, another one the following Tuesday, nothing since then. So she was probably 2yrs 7mths.

We're not quite there with poo yet.... but we're working on it. And now she's a big girl, she's going to kinder next year

So my suggestion to you are to let her have a bit of nappy off time at home and see how she reacts when she wees. If she gets quite upset about it, doesn't like it, you can use that to help her understand that wee goes in the toilet! But if she doesn't seem to be aware of it, maybe she's not quite ready yet.