You could try spending a day at home, in undies, and every hour take her to the loo. She sits, she tries, she gets a reward. If she does something, even bigger reward!

So it's being more proactive about it and helping her understand what the toilets about, as opposed to waiting for her to get the feeling.

I was nervous the first few times we went out without a nappy... You saw me at the playcentre!!! I was a wreck! But at some stage you have to trust her. And yourself, that you'll judge when she is ready correctly.