I'm not sure if there is much difference between cloth & sposies either, but I do know that DS will rarely wee in cloth anymore. He'd rather take them off & wee on the floor
this what our DD does glad to see we are not the only ones

i find that kids will TT only when they are ready to have a crack at it, and only then can the subtlety of difference between cloth or sposies be seen ITMS. for example i found that DD only started wanting the cloth off for a wee after she had done a few wees on the toilet and really started to 'get' the concept. before that she was happy to wee or poo regardless of cloth or sposie.

generally we do the knickers or the nudie rudie in our house DD likes the idea of 'big girl' undies and the ease of no knickers is advantageous for her as she likes to get on the toilet on her own and she finds having knickers to be time consuming lol.