so, update. we were nearly there. so very nearly there, we had wees sorted! poos not so much...then she went back to square -10...worse than when we were started =( and then she got sick... she then said to me l dont want to get big.
she turns 3 in a month so ive just let it go until after then, back in nappies. it was DH and i so stressed everytime she had an accident, which made her stressed and then Quark stressed.
we thought she was ready...she checked every box on the lists