Well in the past few days Maggie has started to refuse wearing a nappy. This wouldn't be a problem except that she telling us that she needs to go to the toilet. As she is weeing she will say something, but not before.

I ask her regularly does she need to go, I even try taking, but she wont go. Other times she will go herself, sit and read, but not do anything. She is getting hysterical about having a nappy put on, but I have run out of pants except for one, which we have over the nappy to keep her happy.

Early in the year she looked as though she would toilet train, as she was telling me before she needed a poo in the morning and I would put her on the toilet. Other times before bed she has asked to go to the toilet and then done a wee. If I use the parents rooms at shopping centres she will want to go on the little toilet there and she always does a wee.

So I am really confused. She really wants to wear undies, but does not seem to want to do the rest the goes with it. What is the best way to deal with this??