thread: TTing and fingers where they really shouldn't be (bit of vent)

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2004
    Cairns QLD
    5,471

    TTing and fingers where they really shouldn't be (bit of vent)

    I have to watch my 8 yr old he has in the past poked others in the bum while I the bath :/

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Feb 2006
    NSW Central Coast
    5,301

    Totally normal. I am constantly telling my now 4 1/2 year old, to get his hands out of his pants (front and back!) and to wash them afterwards! My 2 year old is slowly toilet training too, and is becoming more and more fascinated with his penis and bottom.

    I have taken to telling him he can touch himself when he's in his room or in private, but it's not appropriate to touch it when other people are around (especially me, it's rather disturbing to see my 4 year old with an erection!)

    Thankfully I haven't experienced any poking of siblings bits yet!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Brisbane
    1,621

    Thanks gals. You're helping to make me realise this is a normal phase. Well, 'hopefully" a phase!!!

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Dec 2010
    The zoo
    735

    ohhhh boys. DS1 only tried to touch his bottom and I told him off so sternly that he's never ventured there again. The penis was quite fascinating there for awhile, but he knows now it's a bath or bedtime toy.

    But now that I've read this I just know number two will go for the bottom. He does everything number one didn't. Fantastic!

  5. #5

    May 2008
    Melbourne, Vic
    8,631



    Oh gosh. Is this what I have to look forward to????

    Boys really are feral creatures.

  6. #6

    Mar 2004
    Sparta
    12,662

    I don't think boys are any more feral than girls.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Dec 2010
    The zoo
    735

    I don't think boys are any more feral than girls.
    Agreed. I remember one of my older sister's friend (she was about seven at the time) sticking her finger in her bottom and pulling out some poo in the bath.

  8. #8

    May 2008
    Melbourne, Vic
    8,631

    Oh dear!!!! Maybe I've been lucky with my DD then... So far!

    Possibly it isn't fair to say boys are feral, I should say my boy seems more feral than my girl

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Adelaide
    3,201

    I remember when DS was freshly toilet trained (we did the 3 day potty training method, and DS was pretty much trained the second day), I remarked to DH that I thought he toilet trained quickly just so that he didn't have to wear a nappy any more and had better access to his willy!! PMSL

    I also remember asking DH if it was normal how fascinated and how much DS played with his willy. DH laughed and said it was just a faze, that would pass in about 60 or so YEARS LOL

    So yes, very normal