Arcadia- that's the thing! she goes to bed about 7.30. Pees before bed. Hubby takes her to the toilet at 9ish and sometimes she is still dry, others she has already wet the bed!
I have been looking at the brolly sheets! Might get some of them as they look awesome
One of my brothers was an extended bed wetter. Mum took him to a special clinic at the children's hospital as they had a program for it at the time (not sure if they still do).
They set him up with a special sheet that had an alarm attached to it that went under his normal bedding. As soon as it sensed wetness the alarm would go off. The first point of the alarm was to hopefully startle them out of sleep and stop them from doing the entire wee in the bed. He was then taught that he had to go finish his wee on the toilet, and as a part of the program is was his "job" to get changed into fresh pajamas, remove the wet bedding from the bed, push fresh bedding on the bed and then go back to bed by himself. The idea was that none of it was very fun, and he quickly adjusted and stopped wetting the bed. I think he was older than 4 at the time though, and as my eldest is not quite 3 yet, I'm not sure if a 4 year old is mature enough to understand and learn to do all that stuff. It might work if perhaps she just had a parent 'helper' when she is changing the bed clothes and things.
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