Thanks

That's pretty much the approach I want to take ie: when she is ready she will let me know type of thing, and as we have kidney ossues in our family the last thing I want to do is try and push her too early before she is ready and then possibly at a stage having a fear of going to the toilet and then holding it in.

There seems to be a bit of a thing about TTing early but I just want to let her enjoy being little at the moment without having to feel compelled to TT.