i hear you FIONAJILL!

my eldest was fully toilet trained at the age of 3. but my darling little Cody is 4 in december and i am still struggling. what amazes me is that on his daycare day he NEVER wets his pants. he has a ladder and seat plus a potty at home. but he will hold on to the very last second! and only goes if i am sitting on the floor by him.

i think you are correct in saying every child is different. my boy is just too involved in what he is doing to take 'time out' for a wee (or whatever)

until last week he actually was running off and putting on a nappy to do number 2's! so now the nappies have been hidden.

pull ups are a waste of time. Glenn is still young. just gently persist with lots of encouragement when he does go toilet. as i have learnt, no two children are the same and by the time they start school, most will all walk, talk and be toilet trained. every little one is different.

good luck..