It is so reassuring to read this thread and to see we aren't alone! DD turns 3 in January and I tried the first time just after she turned 2, we've given it three good goes but no success yet. In the last few months we've just been sitting her on the toilet at transition times but if she says she doesn't want to, we don't force her.

She'll sit on the toilet till the cows come home but won't actually do anything on it.

I'm starting maternity leave next week and am planning to really focus on it then. I'm hoping the warmer weather will help.

I must admit to feeling like a bit of a loser when other kids her age are fully TTd and have been for months.