Hugs hun it is very frustrating!!! DS1 was not interested I tryed a few times and we had tantys and screaming crying banshee child. Bought that many different toilet seats soft padded, plastic one that goes under toilet seat potty and steps with a seat!

At 3 years 7 months one day I changed him in the morning and not even 20 mins later he had pood in nappy as about to go out door to child care. I put him in undies grabbed a heap of clothes and off we went. No issues at cc no accidents but no poos there! Wees were great we only ended up with 2 wee accidents in 2 weeks both from being distracted. Poo on other hand he would scream and cry in desperation for a nappy and would be loopy. I got so over cleaning undies as he was a 3 times a day poo as well, I chucked out some undies as could not face cleaning them!

I took books to toilet and read to him, sang songs, took toys, took ipad and in the end I think it was luck! He was on loo carrying on for a min then he pooed and reslised it was not as scary as he thought, he wanted me to take a pic for daddy and send to him (pmsl things we do) we then made a huge fuss of poo and didn't look back. Was 2 weeks since he was wee toilet trained.

On his 4th bday he announced he was wearing undies to bed not a nappy as he is a big boy and touch wood no
Accidents!

Good luck hope she gets it soon to
Save you from yuck poo undies