Sorry for only coming back to this now,

Karina - DD loves blowing raspberries on my thigh when I sit on the loo And she knows that if you have sat on the loo, you need to wipe your bottom with toiletpaper and that goes INSIDE the loo.

Ali - She can't yet pull down her pants on her own, or maybe she just won't. When I ask her to undress for bathtime, she would just come and stand with her back to me and say: "Undress mommy" Bad mothering

You know what I also forget ... she was prem ... 6 weeks. So although she is 20 months, she is not really 20 months. And the pull-down- self-pants-thing is still bothering me. Also I don't know when last I took a nappy off and it was dry, if ever. And she still gets something to drink during the night. AND she does not have the vocabulary yet ... knows wee and poo, but I'm not sure that she actually GETS what the means, kwim??? OR I could just be lazy in training her *sigh*

After thinking and reading on the internet (wicked internet ... makes you doubt yourself) I don't know if I should TT her, or if I should just wait till after the Little Man comes and do it then. But I do soooo want to take advantage of summer, kwim?? Maybe I should first get her off the night-time drinks. She does not drink alot, like 50ml ... but she wakes up three or four times during the night to drink it. HAVE to get her off that!!

Thanks for the advice ... I would LOVE to hear some more opinions!!

ETA: After reading that last two paragraphs .. I'm in serious doubt of my mothering skills .... maybe I just want to keep her small ARGGGHHHHHHH bugger!!!!!