Hi Rach,
congratulations on the birth of Bianca! What hospital did you have her at?
Regarding reflux, are you seeing a Paediatrician at the moment? They should be able to help or even your gp to begin with, she might need to get some med's for it. Nixon was diagnosed with reflux at about 10weeks actual and we tried a number of things then finally got him onto Zantac, combined with all the others things like evelating cot, tummy time minimal trying to feed him elevated and keep him elevated atleast 30min after each feed it slowly got better. Every baby is different depending on the extremity of it but Nixon's finally got alot better once he started sitting up.
How long did she spend in hospital?