Julie, firstly congrats on the births of your boys!! They are great sizes

My daughter was born at 30 weeks and weighed 1680g. she weighed 2225g when she came home at 34w3d gestation. I was told that she could come home once she could maintain her body temp (she had some slights probs with this - but when they are in an open cot it means they're fine in that dept) is breastfeeding/bottle feeding (depending on what your doing) and putting on weigh without being on pentavite. (i think thats the name of it)

I agree in investing in an angel care monitor, they're $179 from target, and as my daughter had apnoea i found that it helped me sleep at night. Its a mat under their cot mattress, and when it senses no movement/breaths for 20 seconds, it alarms. And its loud!!

email me if you ever need to talk at simone_pitcher@hotmail.com